You will fall in love with the most unexpected person in the most unexpected time but that doesn't make it wrong. Everyone deserves to be happy and I think everyone should learn to respect that. Even the person whom you cannot see a relationship with, will be the apple of your eye in a few weeks or months. he or she will be the perfection you are seeking and you cannot resist the feeling of falling in love.
That is the cute part, the painful part is when that love is unrequited. You may be too afraid to confess or too comfortable to risk. If you are in this disposition, you must build enough courage to stand up and ask what is really going on between you too or forever suffer the fate of wondering of how and what is your worth to the person whom you see your future with. Painfully humbling it may is, as long as the courage to ask and stand up is nil, never expect for anything more than friends.
Painful it may seems but this is the best thing about it in another point of view. That person in your mind or in your heart is a memory or an imagination, a fantasy that will never be tarnished. He or she will forever be perfect in you mind and heart as their mere presence excites every cell in your body. they are perfectly imperfect and that is fine because...
Once you know the person, your perfect oasis illusion crumbles one by one. They fall to the category in which you can barely look at them in the eye. The perfect person or the perfect fantasy you have is falling flat on your face and you have to accept that. This is why most relationships fail, they build something, a standard or a set of it to a certain person they like and if they fail to meet these pre requisite standards, they tend to get disappointed. Remember that every person is a flawed animal and accept the fact that they will cease to be perfect.
Another fallacy of falling in love is when the person takes advantage of your feelings. They have this mentality that no matter what they do, you will never leave by their side, since you are too madly inlove with them. Just remember how important self love is before even diving into another person's heart.
So my advice, is to never fall in love at all cost. It is too much of an expense to something that may crumble in years to come.
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