The thing about love is that we often disregard reciprocation for the concept of giving rather than receiving that we fail to realize how self destructive it is. We often disregard the fact that even the best of things that we can offer: time, effort or space, will never worth anything to the wrong person. Even if you offer yourself to the point that you cannot offer anything more, you will be drained to the extent for naught. All efforts are in vain and you have to live with that. But the sad part here is that we don't see those flags at first because we are too deeply in love. We let these things pass by and unknowingly, we are feeling more empty than usual. The person who should be the one to fill you up becomes the leak that slowly drains your happiness, the thing that leaked out can never return. Not in this lifetime, not ever.
You only realize that this person is not good for you once everything is lost. the wrong person will never appreciate you even if you give your all and you cannot blame them for that. Language of love is never universal. The person you are offering your feelings to cannot be blamed since they speak of another. You have to live with the fact that despite the fiery passion and everything, you can never get a happy scenario with this person.
In the end, let go and move on. The best of you will never be enough for the person who doesn't even know your value.
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