The pain of rejection is acute but the pain of regret is chronic. Once rejected you will learn to move on with your life and accept things as they are. Seeing her again will make you feel contented because you know deep in your heart that you have done everything in you power to win her heart, you may have failed but you will learn to see where you did wrong and improve yourself. Rejection hurts for a few days or more but you will earn to grown from it, maybe she's not just for you and there is some better, that's the thing it will hurt for a moment then you learn to stand on your own.
However, the pain of regret is chronic. The haunts of what ifs and maybes will steal away your sleepless nights and every moment you are with that person you are hoping and when you see them with someone else, you are hurting. Bottled up mixed emotions will forever be in your heart and as the days go by, you feel the weight of it getting heavier each time. But there is nothing you can do, those what ifs are only possible scenarios as you watch her smile in another man's arms. Wishing you have done something more.
So in any scenario take the risk. It is better to lose the battle trying rather than lose everything waiting. You cannot assure that everyone you wish to love in this world will reciprocate your feelings but how will you find that one if you keep messing around and beating around the bush? Go after her, take the risk and if you lose, sulk it up and move on, if you win, I'm happy for you.
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