In a generation where very few genuine good people exist, we often mistook kindness for desire. And that leaves us heartbroken everytime because some people only seeks to offer help as much as they could and there is no feelings behind that. Caring and loving are two things that may go hand in hand but you can care without falling in love but to prove love, you have to care. But that is for another issue. It just pains me that every simple action now is mistaken for flirting since being a genuine person with no intentions exist.
By this, we expect so much from people who are really nice and get mad at them from breaking our hearts even though we were the one who drowned ourselves by our own expectations. We end up pushing people away who are better of as friends just because we can't help falling in love with every person who shows sincerity.
Let's take it easy for now. Not everything has to revolve around love. There are no damsels in distress in real life and no knights in shining armor. We are all lost souls looking to fix ourselves and that cannot be done if we insist on every person we meet in our lifetime.
As funny as the term 'marupok' sounds, it speaks to us in a spiritual level where are desperate for love that we fall for everything and everyone. Let's accept the fact that one can be a genuine good person without feelings involved. You are not considered a good person if you're only nice to people who you are inlove with, it doesn't work that way.
Let us all try to be a good person without any feelings involved. There is a fine line between flirting and being a kind person. If you really like someone, clear up your intentions and say it forward. the benefit of doubt never benefits anyone. Make kindness a common thing so that people won't mistook it for love.
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