Day 336: No one really knows you

The problem is that people thought they understand things which in fact they do not have the slightest clue what the thing or situation before them has. They will speak numerous things about it but in reality it never existed to them as a truth because the version they know of their story is theirs, the absolute truth is in someone's mind and the people only "knows" the situation but does not fully understand it. They can go on and on but in reality, the truth is something fractured or even shattered as every pieces of it is scattered in every mind that has knowledge about it.

There was this great book where it tells that no one really knows you, the people who knows you has different versions of you in their reality but in the end, who you are is who you are. No person, no matter how you love or hate them really knows who you are and I totally agree with it. That is why people act as if they knew you because people fear what they don't understand and the confusion or lost in translation actually terrify people. No matter who you are, you are not really "someone" at all, you are just a pigment of imagination to everyone, like everyone else.

So when people start acting like they know you or know your feelings, avoid them. The best that they can do is memorize you, what are your favorite things, hobbies and etc. but in the end, the change sin your body, the pain and what truly makes you happy is all on you. No one is really in charge of your happiness.  That is why stop saying the this person completes you because despite the love you give and reciprocate, the best thing they can do is memorize you and frankly, people memorize things bad.

So, in the end learn to be in charge of your own happiness and stop seeking validation from anyone else. You out of all people know yourself and stop saying that someone will save you because the best that they can do is provide temporary comfort. Once you are alone and isolated, the only person that can truly help you is you.