Some people can always spit out advices even when they are not asked to. Funny how not being in the situation gives you the license to speak more than the person who is in crisis itself.
That is how toxic this culture is, they do not wish to listen rather they only want to give advices despite not learning the truth and hearing every side of the story.
They wish to be praised and heed intelligent but they don't know how destructive their actions are. There will be times that a person will only wish for a shoulder to cry on or they know the solution but they rather let it out of their chest first.
Shut up okay? learn to listen when people trust you and stop giving out of the blue advices which are not even asked in the first place. If you cannot listen, just go. Rather than being helpful, you are only poking the scars and scabs of the person. Learn to shut up.
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