Day 20: Stages of falling in love

I love you because....
- The most shallow one, you love within these conditions and once they are gone. A girl or guy maybe smart, attractive or just really appeals to you. But once that faint attraction fades or that single or couple of traits are gone, the "love" is lost. Most people get hurt because even at this stage, they expect and they expect that the person they are attracted to will maintain the trait they are holding onto. Its not love if you accept them only for their strengths. Well, this type of love is easy to shake off, unless you're an impulsive who takes the high road ate the first step. You might as well get hurt and prepare to be disappointed. It's not a bad thing to gain attraction for a certain someone, it's just learn to love their flaws first before you decide you really love that person.

I love you despite....
- These type of people are like vegans, they think they are special but they are in the same shit as everyone else. People have varied tolerance level, it depends on what he or she went through. Nonetheless, loving a person "despite" of, means that you are merely tolerating a trait of the person you love. He or she maybe a smack eater, smelly, loud snorer, impolite, rude and many more. Let's face the fact that we are all human beings and sooner or later we are going to break. The cute will be annoying, the adorable will be stifling and the things you tried to ignore will suddenly be a leverage against you every time you argue. Trust me, every little thing that they tolerated about you will be a conviction. After this, it will be a push and pull or an on and off.

I love you.
- It's perfectly imperfect. You couldn't understand the feeling, you just love that person. It's like the universe align and all the wars cease to exist. Everything was a poetry in motion. The world stopped and haste at the same time. If you could choose to travel the world with some one else or stay with that person eating reheated pizza while watching a crappy television show, you choose that individual every single time. You cannot put it into words and the paper rejects it. It's a feeling that everything is just the way you dream. The downside of it is that once the one you love decided to leave you, it hurts like hell. The years, months you spent building and dreaming can collapse in a matter of seconds. The palace of dreams becomes the ruins of broken dreams. The love that was once impossible to explain becomes a pain impossible to comprehend.